| Transcripts from Thom Forbes Chat
Session (08/03/2006)
8/3/2006 11:29:13 AM] [Entrance]
[MODERATOR => All] "Welcome to the “Silent Treatment: Addiction in
America” web chat, where we’ll discuss addiction issues featured in
the newspaper series and www.silenttreatment.info. It’s my pleasure
to introduce Thom Forbes, journalist, author and blogger (while
you’re here, you might want to check out his blog,
www.elephantonmain.com), who wrote the first in a series of five
Public Access Journalism stories examining addiction treatment and
recovery funded by the Robert Wood Johnson Foundation and now
appearing in newspapers nationwide. Tom has a lot of personal
experience to share — he’s a recovering alcoholic, as is his wife,
Deirdre. His daughter, Carrick, was featured in the “Dateline” show
“Saving Carrick” and currently is on methadone maintenance for
heroin addiction (her blog, “Living It” is featured at www.blog/silenttreatment.htm).
He’s ready for your questions and comments on living with addiction,
so fire away by entering your message in box at bottom."
[8/3/2006 11:32:00 AM] [Entrance] [Thom => All] "Thanks and
hello everyone."
[8/3/2006 11:32:16 AM] [Entrance] [MODERATOR => All] "Question from
Renee, received Aug. 2: What is the best approach to use when
working with dually diagnosed adults for whom past attempts at
stabilization of their mental illness through medications has been
unsuccessful?"
[8/3/2006 11:32:54 AM] [Entrance] [Thom => All] "Since this question
came in in advance of the live chat, I had a chance to talk to Dr.
Harris Stratyner about it. Stratyner, who runs Madison East at Mount
Sinai Hospital in Manhattan and is quoted in my story, is an expert
on dual diagnosis patients. To answer your question, he elaborated
on what he means by "meeting the patient where he or she is at." He
said that it is crucial for the clinician to make a "therapeutic
alliance" with the patient, making it clear that they truly do not
judge the patient and understand that he or she has two diseases
that feed off of each other. You do want to use medications,
particularly with major "Axis I" diseases <http://psyweb.com/Mdisord/DSM_IV/jsp/Axis_I.jsp>,
he said, but it's best to do it in conjunction with cognitive
behavior therapy <http://www.nacbt.org/whatiscbt.htm>."
[8/3/2006 11:33:19 AM] [Entrance] [Pat => All] "Thom - I guess I’m
wondering, given your family history, the advice you would give
Carrick were she to become a mother. How early is early when kids
start using at 12? Looking back, did you see signs of addictive
behavior when she was quite young and do you believe, in retrospect,
you could have undertaken any form of treatment that could have
altered her course? Thanks and best of luck to you and your family.
"
[8/3/2006 11:35:44 AM] [Entrance] [Thom => All] "I think Carrick
will face the same problem we did knowign the gentic predisposition.
It's hard to say what I'd tell her to do other than to listen to her
own advice one a kid starts exhibiting signs of use. Don't trust
them."
[8/3/2006 11:38:05 AM] [Entrance] [Thom => All] "To elaborate a bit,
it's amazing how early kids are experimenting with things nowadays,
and I'd encourage parents to always question what they've been doing
and who they were with."
[8/3/2006 11:40:51 AM] [Entrance] [Thom => All] "More on the dual
diagnosis question from Harris Strayner: "Usually if you speak
reasonably to the person, and you don't condemn him by saying, 'Why
do you drink? Don't you realize it's bad for you? Don't you realize
you're bipolar and take medication?' and instead say 'What do you
like about drinking?' and point out that he may be self-medicating,
which is very normal, you'll be successful at educating the person,
not judging him,' Stratyner said. "That's how you draw in dually
diagnosed people." I hope this helps."
[8/3/2006 11:43:01 AM] [Entrance] [Thom => All] "More on the
question about early intervention: Carrick was seeign a psychologist
at age 5 for some separation issues. She was attending 12 Step
meetings with her mother when she was a toddler. Sometimes, as much
as you think you're on top of things, people are going to do what
they are going to do anyway."
[8/3/2006 11:43:33 AM] [Entrance] [MODERATOR => All] "MODERATOR:
Thom, in your story u talk about not seeking help for alcoholism.
What would you say was your basis for recovery?"
[8/3/2006 11:45:08 AM] [Entrance] [MODERATOR => All] "From Rachael:
Hi Thom, My questions primarily have to do with educating myself
about methamphetamine addiction in the U.S., for the purposes of
understanding the lives of the growing numbers of meth users who,
either by choice or by state mandate, are relinquishing their
children to Social Services/foster care . . . 1. Based on your
experience as a journalist, do you agree with the Drug Enforcement
Agency's recent categorization of methamphetamine addiction as a
national epidemic? If so, why, and if not, why not? 2. Scientists
have demonstrated that the neuroscience of methamphetamine usage
differs greatly from the usage of other drugs such as cocaine,
heroine and marijuana. Metamphetamines produce a longer and stronger
high, and dismantle dopamine receptors, resulting in severe
depression and an inability for users to experience pleasure. It is
thought that this deep chemical depression cements the user's
addiction in a way that other drugs may not. It also makes recovery
a longer and more difficult process. Based on your experiences as a
journalist, could you comment on the possible ways that the specific
neuroscience of methamphetamines may be altering current
generational addiction patterns, and how it might end up producing
unique and specific generational addiction patterns in the future?
Thanks. "
[8/3/2006 11:45:13 AM] [Entrance] [Thom => All] "Well, I DID receive
help, just not through a formal network. I talked to friends who had
been in recovery. I read books. I searched my sould (took inventory,
as AAers would say). "
[8/3/2006 11:45:20 AM] [Entrance] [RC => All] "Thom - my question is
about addiction programs in the workplace. As a supervisor I
strongly encouraged one of my employees to go through such a program
but it turned out to be mostly worthless...and this was at a Fortune
100 company. The assistance primarily was for outpatient and limited
to 30 days. Do you think most companies pay lip service to
addiction? "
[8/3/2006 11:46:50 AM] [Entrance] [renee => All] "Thank you for your
comments regarding working with dually diagnosed. I do understand
that the therapuetic alliance is crucual when working with this
population. "
[8/3/2006 11:49:44 AM] [Entrance] [Thom => All] "Hi Rachael. Well,
that's a tough one to answer in a chat but I will say that meth is a
terrible problem in many areas of the country but it has not hit the
New York metro area, where I live, to the same extent as elsewhere.
Part of the reason it's so popular is that it's cheaper and easy (if
dangerous) to produce. A lot of rhetoric goes back and forth about
the extent of the "epidemic" but the bottom line is that there are a
lot of people who need treatment who aren't getting it. I don't
think that simply throwing people in jail is the answer. I'm not
qualified to talk about the neuroscience of meth addiction, but I
agree that resouces need to thrown in its direction. "
[8/3/2006 11:51:58 AM] [Entrance] [Thom => All] "Hi RC. If someone
has diabetes, are they limited to 30 days of outpatient treatment?
If they eat a bunch of cookies, does the company give up on them and
say, "we tried, but the patient is not cooperating.' I think that
it's a crime how badly insurance companies and corporations, with
exceptions so rare that I can't think of any currently, treat people
with addictions."
[8/3/2006 11:56:29 AM] [Entrance] [Thom => All] "Back to the
moderator's question about the "basis" for my recovery. As with
everyone who eventually recovers, I WANTED to do it. Wanting to do
it is, in itself, often not enough as addiction is physical as well
a psychological, but I was lucky enough to be able to handle
withdrawal with relative ease. "
[8/3/2006 11:57:01 AM] [Entrance] [MODERATOR => All] "Thom, the
workplace issue is interesting, because there is little activism to
change that situtation. Why do you think that is?"
[8/3/2006 11:59:02 AM] [Entrance] [Thom => All] "More on companies
and recovery. Not too long ago, people went away for 30 days, or
more. Yes, this is costly. But think of all of the expense in lost
production you get from workers who are addicts or alcoholics. There
are facts and figures to back that up, and I'll be happy to email
them to you later."
[8/3/2006 12:01:05 PM] [Entrance] [renee => All] "Thom, as someone
who works in addiction field as well as being in recovery, I know
that there is still a social stigma attached to being an
addict/alcoholic. "
[8/3/2006 12:01:57 PM] [Entrance] [Thom => All] "Why isn't there
more activism about workplace issues? First, the insurance lobby is
extremely powerful and they are very effective in stopping parity
legislation for chemical dependancy. We witness this in recent
months in NY State, where "Timothy's Law" finally got to the floor
of the state Senate only after it had been stripped of all
refererences to chemical dependency. Second, there's still such
stigma attached to this disease that those affected are afraid to
stand up for their rights."
[8/3/2006 12:02:46 PM] [Entrance] [renee => All] "It is possible
that this stigma prevents parity between treatment for addiction and
treatment for other medical conditions."
[8/3/2006 12:03:47 PM] [Entrance] [Rachael => All] "Hi Thom,
with regard to your earlier comments on meth usage, I agree. I hope
that journalists will focus more specifically on meth addiction in
the future. Perhaps it needs to hit DC and NYC first. "
[8/3/2006 12:03:56 PM] [Entrance] [Thom => All] "Renee, I responded
to the workplace question before I saw your note and I could not
agree more. Overcoming stigma is the first step in overcoming
discrimination against addicted people, and that is why my familiy
and myself have joined the thousands of other people who are
putting a face to recovery around the country."
[8/3/2006 12:04:16 PM] [Entrance] [RC => All] "A follow comment on
the workplace and question. at my current company (energy sector)
they drug test and alcohol test in some positions. If you fail,
you're fired...more or less on the spot I believe. I believe it is a
strong deterrent for many casual users. Can this kind of system,
harsh as it is, help prevent casual users from becoming addicted? Do
you see any benefits to testing in the workplace? "
[8/3/2006 12:05:21 PM] [Entrance] [Thom => All] "Rachael, I think
you're right about that. We've had some people on our
elephantonmain.com website who've talked about entire generations of
hard-working families in mid-America being wiped out by meth
addiction."
[8/3/2006 12:07:59 PM] [Entrance] [Thom => All] "I don't believe
that anything like that will, in most cases, deter an addict. It is
a progressive disease. It may deter an addict from being employed at
the company in the first place, however, but is that really
addressing the societal issue. I'm sure companies will argue, with
some legitimacy, that it's not their palce ot solve society's
problems, but as they demand more and more of our times and
energies, whose is it?"
[8/3/2006 12:09:32 PM] [Entrance] [Thom => All] "RC, I do think that
testing is necessary in many cases where people are operating
machinery or have others people's lives in their hands. But rather
than being punitive, why don't we help the people who fail the
tests?"
[8/3/2006 12:13:38 PM] [Entrance] [Thom => All] "For those of you
who are interested in stigma issues, I suggest that you check out
Faces and Voices of Recovery <facesandvoicesofrecovery.org> "
[8/3/2006 12:14:10 PM] [Entrance] [Steve => All] "The
stigma/discrimination issue impacts every facet of this discussion.
It seems to me that all historical models for effectively addressing
stigma/discrimination contained an element of militancy as well as
visibility. Putting a face to recovery is a fundamental beginning
but raising some hell should be part of the equation. "
[8/3/2006 12:14:22 PM] [Entrance] [Rob => All] "Hi Thom - This may
be a cheap shot at Mel Gibson but I think to some degree society
segments addictions and addicts and dismisses the problem when they
see celebrities/athletes/authors/politicians blame bad behavior on
addiction. Do you think hollywood coverage of addiction has hurt the
cause overall? "
[8/3/2006 12:16:02 PM] [Entrance] [Thom => All] "We're all for
raising hell in this household, Steve. Deirdre's bumper sticker
reads: 'Well behaved women don't make history." Any suggestions?"
[8/3/2006 12:17:14 PM] [Entrance] [Steve => All] "Creative,
non-violent disruption of services."
[8/3/2006 12:20:13 PM] [Entrance] [Thom => All] "Rob, I think that
it's a mixed bag. It's good when serious attention is paid to people
like Patrick Kennedy, who has been a long-time supporter of the
rights of addicts. But the stories about Mel Gibson are doomed to be
superficial, at least in most publications. We've all done things,
or said things, we've regretted when we're under the influence of
course. That's not an excuse but it's sometimes a valid explanation.
It will be interesting to see how Gibson follows through. I'm an
optimist and hope some good will come out of it all."
[8/3/2006 12:21:27 PM] [Entrance] [Thom => All] "Steve, that's an
interesting concept. Hwo would you do it and what would be the
specific goals?"
[8/3/2006 12:25:38 PM] [Entrance] [Thom => All] "We spent some time
at rallies for the passage of Timothy's Law this spring, and learned
first hand how intractable politicans can be. I agree that we've got
to find a way to take to the streets and make our voices heard. We
were very disappointed in the extent of the involvement of the
chemical dependency providers in particular."
[8/3/2006 12:26:11 PM] [Entrance] [MODERATOR => All] "Actually,
activism is becoming more popular in the recovery world, no?"
[8/3/2006 12:28:37 PM] [Entrance] [Thom => All] "Yes, it definitely
is and FAVOR is any excellent umbrella for that. Unfortuantely,
though, most people are still afraid to admit that they have this
disease and it's sometimes for very good reasons: they'll lost their
jobs or be ostracized by friends and family. There IS strength is
numbers and I hope this series and website will help to increase
those numbers exponentially."
[8/3/2006 12:26:43 PM] [Entrance] [Rob => All] "True, and I see your
point but we all know Gibson winds up on cover of Vanity Fair at
some point, claiming to be clean and making a clean start. Frankly,
it's become something of a career move. Emerging from rehab seems to
be the surest way to get a cover story. There's been discussion of
stigma but it seems to be the opposite in glitter set--something of
a rite of passage or way to gain publicity. "
[8/3/2006 12:29:06 PM] [Entrance] [Pat Nichols => All] "Very few
understand and/or accept the disease model. there's the problem."
[8/3/2006 12:30:12 PM] [Entrance] [Thom => All] "Rob, you're right
about that. The role of the media is a huge one but is more the
subject of a book than a chat."
[8/3/2006 12:31:42 PM] [Entrance] [Thom => All] "I agree, Pat. Even
addicts sometimes find it hard to square their behavior with the
disease model. That's why they'll say something like "I can quit
whenever I want" when it's much more complicatied that that."
[8/3/2006 12:32:14 PM] [Entrance] [MODERATOR => All] "We’re just
about out of time. Thanks so much for joining us. This chat will be
archived if others would like to check it out later. Thanks again,
and come back tomorrow for Dr. Tom McLellan, same time, same
channel."
[8/3/2006 12:32:44 PM] [Entrance] [Thom => All] "So long everyone.
Thanks for joining us today."
[8/3/2006 12:33:11 PM] [Entrance] [Pat Nichols => All] "Thank you
all. Never give up and always have a plan."
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